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And I
hope that this record will be as helpful to you as it has been to me
and
my many friends who have heard my lectures for the past few years. I
know
that if you will apply this thought to yourself you too can prove this.
The eternal search of all mankind throughout the ages has been to
obtain
with ease the most valuable of possessions - the unfluttered and poised
approach to life. A successful business, abundant material resources,
positions
in society, although they have their place are not the answer to the
search.
What
is poise? And what can we do as individuals to obtain this valuable
possession?
To those who have lifted their horizon of thought , to recognise poise
as an inner quality, the search is proving to be most enlightening and
rewarding for they are becominng aware that poise is that piece of mind
that is not external to them but is a present possession. Poise is a
state
of self-knowledge, a sense of well-being.
It is
demeanouring and supurb self-appreciation. It is a self assured, quiet
and confident approach to any situation that offers success as its
reward.
Peace as its companion, ambition without arrogance and motives without
deception. An honest purpose is always at peace with itself. Poise
demands
discipline and poise has its commandments. Let us consider together
what
I believe to be the ten commandments of poise, and how we shall proceed
to learn and obey them. Number One - understand the meaning of
self-appreciation.
Number two - develop your potential. Number three - do not make
comparisions.
Number four - do not personalise qualities. Qualities are not personal
possessions. Number five - improve thought patterns. Number six - use
outward
gestures as an index to character. Number seven - do not sale yourself
short. Number eight - be sincere. Number nine - create in the minds of
the people the impression you want them to have of you every moment of
every day. Number ten - learn to apprecate your true selfhood, thereby
learn to love your fellow man. Would we be able to see in another what
we have failed to recognise in ourselves? Self knowledge through
self-appreciation
enables us to know our fellow man. Refusal to think ourselves complete
and yet seem to see that completeness in another is an exaggerated
false
concept.